According to the criminal complaint:
The pastor, identified in the complaint only as "M.S.O.," first contacted Byington about three years ago by answering an ad for an exotic dancer. He began seeing her at her home in Fargo for dance shows. Eventually, the pastor started paying Byington for sex.
In March, the pastor said he wanted to stop paying her and hoped they could consider their relationship as an affair.
On May 14, she told the pastor that he had to give her $6,000 to keep her from telling his wife and the bishop about their relationship.
Really, I expect better from exotic dancers.